Diary of a MILF

Where's the heat?

2010-02-12T05:48:00.000-08:00

Good grief it's cold in South Florida! This is one of the worst winters we've had in many many years. I was able to get to the beach last Saturday but since then it hasn't gotten above 75 degrees. I know, quit your whining. Everyone else in the northern hemisphere is shovelling their way out of major snowfalls. Tonight is very special to me in that it's hubby and mine anniversary. We have such a great relationship. Unlike other men I have been with, he gives me so much room to grow and be me. Why is it that some men are so insecure that they smother the women they are with, to the point of being controlling and mean. Don't they realize that if they ease up and let their women breathe that they will have a better women? Hubby let's me do what I want and because of this I would never do anything that would upset him and visa-versa. He's a great guy and I wouldn't trade him for anything. Tonight we are going to Trapeze, our favorite swinger club. It's "Lady in Red" night so I'm wearing the red gown you see in this picture. The last time I wore this was when I shot with my friend Black Magic XXX. The funny thing is, he's going to be at the club tonight. I haven't seen him in a year or so. Maybe we'll reprise the role we played in that shoot...hmmmm? I'll let you know how it went.

Kisses.....Bibette

2010-01-06T12:13:00.000-08:00

Happy New years! I know, where have I been for the last 6 months! I can only say I've been overwhelmed with life and just haven't had time to update my blog. The big news is my move to Ft Lauderdale. It's been two years in planning and waiting for the right time. It finally came together in the last 3 months with the kids moving out and a contract on my house. This week has been pretty hectic with packing and purging...out with the old and in with the new! I'll still be working as a physical trainer but in a much nicer gym. I can't wait! I'll also be around a lot of web girls that are willing to shoot content. South Florida is one of the worlds biggest porn production areas outside of San Fernando valley in California. There's a never ending supply of girls and guys to shoot with. I hope you are all staying warm. It's pretty friggin cold down here...I can imagine what it's like up north. Well, back to packing....talk to you soon.

Kisses..... Bibette

It's damn hot!

2009-06-16T09:32:00.000-07:00

Whew... it's hot in south Florida this time of year! Let me tell you about a few other things that are hot. The month of May was scorching in as far as my sex life goes. I partied pretty much all month long with 3 different trips to Ft Lauderdale. We did private parties with new friends and old, went to Haulover beach (clothing optional) , made it to the Fetish Factories annual fetish ball, and hit Trapeze (swing club) every Saturday night. If you guessed that my pussy must be sore after all that screwing you would be right. I'm taking the month of June and July off from partying to clear my head out and to get my body toned up again. I did get to shoot a bunch of content amid all the fun so my websites will be busy for awhile. This summer I'm going to concentrate on my sites and try to get some good content shot in some new locales. We met some new friends that have photo talent and we're going to take advantage of that. Try to stay cool cause it's going to get hotter!

Kisses.....Bibette

Spring has sprung

2009-04-28T13:23:00.000-07:00

Happy Spring everyone! I hope the weather is getting better for all of you that suffered through a pretty crappy winter. I've been pretty busy with pictures and video work and a little playtime mixed in. I'll try to catch you up here. In my last post I was about to shoot with my girlfriend Deauxma in Miami. It didn't turn out quite as well as I would have liked it due to the owners of the house we were at decided they didn't want us shooting porn. What they really wanted was for us to give them all the pictures we had shot. That's when hubby told them to shove it. In the end we gave them a dozen cheesecake pics to keep them happy. The bummer of it all was that when we got home and loaded them into our external harddrive, it gave up the ghost and we lost alot of our work in an instant! We had backed up our picture sets but we lost most of our video. We really had to scramble to reshoot and get pictures posted. April turned out to be a party month for us and a return to the swinger scene in Ft Lauderdale. We met some sexy new couples and explored some new pussy and cock! This month I also tried a bondage set for my Southern Charms website ( www.naughtybibette.net ). It was fun to shoot but SC was reluctant to post what we wanted to show. In the end we had to reshoot our free pics (they couldn't show any restraints) and they still deleted our video clips which featured me sucking and jerking off hubbys big cock while blindfolded and cuffed. I ended up posting the video clip on my www.naughtybibette.com site. May is shaping up to be another party month. We have a swinger/birthday party in a penthouse on Hollywood beach on the 1st, Trapeze on the 2nd, the annual Fetish Factory ball on the 23rd and back to Trapeze on the 24th. I promise I'll kiss and tell! KissKiss.....Bibette

Ready for some fun

2009-03-03T15:23:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone! Can you believe it's March already? February went by so fast it seemed like January just blended into March! It's been a cool winter here in South Florida and I, for one, am ready for some heat! Hopefully this weekend will be what I've been waiting for. On Friday I have plans to shoot content with my most favorite girlfriend, Deauxma! Most of you don't know this but she is the person responsible for getting me into the internet business. We are planning on getting together in Miami for a girl/girl still and video set. I can't wait! Later on that night hubby and I are going out to one of the high-end strip clubs for some girl watching. Saturday will find us soaking up the rays at Haulover clothing-optional beach in North Miami. Saturday night we are meeting up with 2 other couples for a sexy night of dancing and flirting at Trapeze, the best swinger club in this part of the world. I'll fill you in on all the naughtiness next week.

Kisses Bibette

Good morning!

2009-01-28T07:09:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone...Happy Hump Day! I'm off today and cleaning house. When you have four furry beasts roaming the hallways it's a full time job vacuuming up the furballs! This past weekend hubby and I went to dinner with two newbie couples. We had Chinese and a couple of cocktails. What a surprise we had when one of the newbie girls blurted out that she had been a web-girl. We all had a good giggle when she found out that I was too! What are the odds? Maybe it's the economy that's driving girls to show it all on the internet. After dinner we went to a dance club that featured the absolute lamest DJ we've come across in a long time. We didn't stay long as he was killing our buzz. We all parted company there and hubby and I went home and had some of the best sex ever....lots of dirty talk, lots of body fluids squirting everywhere. We soaked the bed right down through the mattress! Our next party weekend will be on the 14th of February when we drive up to Tampa for one of the legendary Ahz parties. It should be a blast! Hopefully we'll get some picture sets done as well. Check my sites out at http://www.naughtybibette.com and http://www.naughtybibette.net .

Kisses.....Bibette

Brrrrrr!

2009-01-22T04:56:00.000-08:00

I probably shouldn't complain about the weather. Most of you are looking at a layer of snow on the ground and single digits on the thermometer. Here in South Florida we never see snow and temperatures below 40 degrees are extremely rare. This morning however, it was a chilly 35 degrees and I'm bundled up...not very sexy! It's going to warm up again in the next couple of days and I can finally take all these clothes off. This weekend I'm going to be shooting content. We haven't shot since the beginning of December and we sorely need pictures and video. We have moved alot of the office furniture out of our master bedroom so we will be able to do some shooting in there. We're going to do some longer videos with more camera angles to sell on my website store (we're in the process of setting that up). We haven't been able to fuck in a couple of weeks due to us both having the flu and a heavy work schedule so we're both ready to bang! Hopefully it will show on the video! Saturday night we're going out with two other Lifestyle couples...both newbies. It should be interesting. I really don't like playing with newbies. It's like housebreaking a new puppy..LOL! There's always a potential for a mess! It will be nice just to hang out with a couple a sexy girls and relax after a day of shooting content. Well, gotta run to the gym. You all stay warm!

Kisses Bibette

2009-01-14T10:36:00.000-08:00

Hey Everyone....Sorry to be gone so long. Sometimes life has different plans for us and we get caught up in them. Since I've written last alot has happened to me and my world. I finished the summer out working my regular job and partying when we could get away. We spent a lot of time in Ft Lauderdale and in between clubbing and getting laid we actually got photos and video work done. Labor day weekend found us at Trapeze (hottest swinger club in South Florida) with newbie friends. We didn't play with them but we did point them in the right direction for Lifestyle fun. Halloween was a great time for us. We always go to the Fetish Factories annual Halloween Gala. Lots and lots of wild costumes and sexy people. We ended the night with an intimate foursome. The guy I was banging is a really close friend and he gave me one of the best fucks I've had besides hubby in a long time! I slept really well that night! I got back to reality and back to the gym after that. I've been training with a competitive female bodybuilder and she is really tearing me up. The workouts are fantastic and I'm seeing really great results. We did'nt do much over Thanksgiving and Christmas but New Years eve we spent with our friends at a beautiful home on the water in Pompano Beach. The party consisted of seven hot couples and six costume changes! Hubby brought all the studio lights and we set up a photo shoot for everyone. By midnight all clothes were off and we banged our way into 2009. On a funny note, my GFF was getting drilled by a hot young buck and she decided to put a vibrating bullet in her ass. Guess what, she had no plan on how to get it out! Thankfully one of our guests is vagina doctor and he was able to get a couple of fingers in her ass and pull it back out. All this while the other twelve guests were standing in the bathroom doorway watching! We'll remember that one for a long time! That brings us up to date. This month will be getting back to normal for us (what's normal?). More photo shoots on the 24th, party in Tampa on the 14th of February. I'll keep you posted.

Kisses....Bibette

Swingtown

2008-06-22T04:48:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone...I hope you are all staying cool this summer. It has been very hot at the Bibette household lately. Mr Bibette and I put together a new video clip for Southern-Charms entitled "Swingtown". We hung our sex swing over our bed and videoed ourselves getting freaky! We set the camera up directly in front of me as I was suspended just a couple of inches off the bed. Then, Mr Bibette got in underneath me with a perfect shot of his big rod in my pussy. I rode him for a few minutes until he shot a big creamy load all over the outside of my hole. The whole time I was narrating the action...it was pretty hot! You can access it through my Southern-Charms site on my photo page. In other news, we just got back from a weekend in Ft Lauderdale where we shot content and got to relax on the beach. We also got in a night of sexy fun at Trapeze, South Floridas hottest swing club. We brought along a newbie couple that had never seen anything like a swing club before. By the end of the night they were raving about the Lifestyle and vowed to return. I would say it was a pretty successful weekend! I'm home now for a couple of weeks and then we are heading to Naples for a photoshoot weekend. KissKiss Bibette

Finally Fun Friday

2008-06-06T07:12:00.000-07:00

Good morning everyone. It's a beautiful day here in South Florida, especially since I have the day off. Unfortunately I had to spend the first couple of hours getting new tires put on the front of my car. Yesterday I had to park in the back lot of the gym and I ran over some construction debris that holed a tire too severe to fix. It was time to replace them anyways but it wasn't something I wanted to do today. Another bummer is that I had to cancel my plans to shoot with my girlfriend Janet Mason. My work schedule got rearranged at the last minute and I just wouldn't have enough time to drive to Atlanta and back. I was looking forward to doing a girl/girl shoot with her. If you haven't seen her before, you need to check out her website at www.janetexposed.com . She is tres' hot! I will probably go to Ft Lauderdale next weekend for a much shortened photoshoot with Mr Bibette. Janet has promised me that she will be coming down this way in a month or so and we will get some content done then. Well, it's off to lunch with a couple of girlfriends and then to the gym and the tanning salon with Mr Bibette. Tonight we finally have an empty house and we are going to catch up on some good sex. Mr Bibette is going to hang up the swing and set up the camera...woowoo!
Kisses Bibette

Back home

2008-05-30T13:35:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone....Wow, I've been gone a long time. This has been a very busy spring and I'm not done yet. Since my last posting I have shot tons of stills and video and put a few thousand miles on our car. My photoshoot at The Rooftop went pretty uneventful. The most exciting thing to happen was that our front window blinds wouldn't close all the way and we had an audience of the other guests for most of the weekend. Fortunately they were all swingers from a traveling Detroit group and they enjoyed the show. We came home for a short stay and then hit the road again for Sarasota and a great little hotel that we used for a weekend of content shooting. It was our first trip without our new puppy and honestly it was a relief not to have her with us (no barking and whining to edit out of the videos). Home again for just a couple of days and then back to Ft Lauderdale for a long weekend of work/play. Once we got the photo stuff done we were able to hit the beach for some clothing optional sunbathing and relaxation. I ran into a bunch of other webgirls I knew and we spent the day chatting and flirting. That night we ended up at Trapeze, the hottest swinger club in South Florida and danced until 2:00AM. At that point we were horny and ready for playtime. We grabbed two other couples and made a getaway back to our hotel. It was 4:00AM before we turned out the lights and I fell asleep with visions of hot sweaty bodies bumping and grinding. I'm home now for a couple of weeks and then I'm off to Atlanta for a weekend of shooting with interracial internet hottie Janet Mason (www.janetexposed.com). I'll fill you in more on those details in a couple of days. Kisses Bibette

2008-04-17T19:57:00.000-07:00

I'm dead tired but I wanted to write a few lines before going to bed. Tomorrow morning Mr Bibette and I are heading over to Ft Lauderdale for a weekend of photo and video shooting for our two sites. This time we are staying at the Rooftop resort, a clothing-optional, swinger-friendly hotel with a pool and sundeck on the roof. Photoshoots out of town are always fun because we get away from the kids and life in general. We also get to have really fun sex on camera! Our new lights came in and are alot bigger than we thought...just more equipment to haul. They put out a ton of light but run very cool which will be greatly appreciated by me. Our other lights pretty much melt the skin off my body! Anyhow, I'm gonna put on my pajamas, crawl into bed and try to sleep in at least until 7:00AM. I'll post again on Monday and fill you in on my weekend. Kisses Bibette

Stockings, Garters and Heels...Oh My!!

2008-04-12T08:16:00.001-07:00

Happy Saturday to you all! I'm off today and getting ready to enjoy some of our wonderful South Florida weather. Mr Bibette and I are going to hit a couple of flea markets looking for retro garters and corsets...ya never know what you'll find! Maybe I can convince him to give me a good banging later on. He usually doesn't need much prompting with such things. I've been working hard all week and have not been taking care of my sexual cravings. Later on this evening we have our regular date night where we go to our favorite sushi bar for some good sushi and a couple of bottles of saki. We'll end the night with me trying on a couple of new outfits to shoot in while hubby sits back and watches. He gets his own personal fashion show! I can always tell which one is a winner by his "peter meter"! We have some new lights coming in on Monday so hopefully we'll eliminate some of the lighting issues that have been plaguing us in our stills and video. I can't wait to try them out! Enjoy your weekend.....Kisses Bibette

Girl on girl

2008-04-09T18:03:00.000-07:00

I'll try to catch you up on what I've been doing the past couple of weeks. Last year I shot a feature film for a company called Girlfriend Films out of Los Angeles, California. They produce girl/girl only films and marketed this one as "Lesbian Triangles". It was a soap opera theme and in it I was co-starring with my girl pal Deauxma . We were supposed to be getting married to each other but ended up cheating with the other girls in the cast. It was a blast and when I got the call a couple of months ago to reprise the roll I jumped at it. We shot over a period of 3 days in Ft Lauderdale, Florida and I got the chance to work with some hot women. My favorite was none other than Janet Mason . I can't wait to see the movie when it comes out because her and I really soaked the bed in our scene! If you want copies of the movies you can go to Girlfriend Films or email me: Bibette@embarqmail.com . That's what I've been up to lately. Since I've been back home I've been trying to get my personal training clientel in order. I have a 7:00AM session with a difficult client so I'm going to bed. I'll post in a day or so. Kisses Bibette

Day 1....welcome to my world

2008-04-07T18:06:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone, my name is Bibette Blanche otherwise known as NaughtyBibette. This is the first installment of my ongoing diary where I will share the intimate details of my naughty life as well as everyday things that even naughty girls do. First, a little about myself. I am a 40-something working mom with a very understanding husband, three typical teenagers, two dogs and two cats. I live in South Florida and spend most of my time working as a personal trainer and working on my websites. For those of you that have visited my sites you know that I have many sides of my sexuality. My site on Southern-Charms (http://www.naughtybibette.net/) reflects my MILF/COUGAR persona and satisfies my exhibitionist tendencies. My NaughtyBibette (http://www.naughtybibette.com/) site lets me explore my love of nylon stockings, garters and heels. As a child I always admired showgirls and in particular the burlesque performers like Gypsy Rose Lee and Sally Rand. When I discovered Betty Page years later I knew that this was something that I would love to do. It was my luck to find a place to show off my hobby, right here on the internet! I will be updating this blog every few days with bits and pieces of my life in text and pictures. Please stop by and be a part of it. Kisses Bibette